so a few wks ago my x calls and leaves me a message askin for help. help with getting a payoff for the car. well, at first hearing this i was pissed. how dare he ask me for help when hes done nothing for me. ie--get me my moms stuff. i talk this over with angie. she helped me come to the conclusion that by helping him i help myself. no more late car payments, no more dealing with the bank calling, etc. hmmm, she had a point. he called again this last wednesday.....not only does he want help with the car, he needs help with his bank account too. come to find out he never took my name off his account. wow--and not wow as in im goin shopping. anyhoo i start asking him for basic information and he doesnt have it with him. ughhhh if u want my fuckin help y rnt u prepared?? i shoulda known........anyhoo, do u know how hard it is to get information when u dont remember ur last known address or even if hes changed it or answers to secret questions that u didnt set up or r basically flying by the seat of ur ass???? well after playing the part of the "stupid wife whos silly husband usually takes care of this and has left w/o tellin her a thing" i got what i needed. and now i can play the part of the responsible adult whos taking care of her x husband. .........the conclusion to this story coming soon.
i will give him some credit though.....at least hes wanting to pay off the car instead of blowin the money. :)
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