ok on occassion i freak out, stress out, worry....w/e u wanna call it. i know that when im "freakin out" about grown up stuff, ie--bills, the car, food in the house, a loved one--that its with due cause. there r reasons behind those things that i can mentally list to give purpose to the freak out....like gettin paid and havin 4 bills due instead of 2 and worryin about how im gonna pay the other 2 that came in. or havin a loved one sick or depressed and worryin about their well being. but what causes freak outs in relationships??? is it the fact that one person (or both) have been hurt b4 and dont want to experience it again??? is it a need to not loose ur partner??? is it a guilty conscious??? is it a desire to know everything about them when they rnt being sooo open??? is it a lack of trust or faith??? im really curious. i have been preachin that i think relationships r easy with the right person. and i still believe it. b open, b honest, talk to ur partner and all should b ok. right? think about it......ppl become unhappy when they bottle shit up and cant talk to their partner, or do talk to their partner with no results. sooooo u both talk, u both listen, u both try to compromise and viola!! maybe freak outs come from unnecessary worry??? (thank god tim and i can talk) any insights to y y'all have freaked out may b helpful to me understanding this phenomenon............
side note---the x is in town and was supposed to bring my moms stuff with him this time. he called last nite at 330am. course i didnt even hear the phone ringing....called him back today, left message. we'll c if he brought my stuff or not. have to remind him of his parking ticket AGAIN. grrrrrrrrr.
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