SCHOOL SIZED NYMPHOS

the other nite i watched a documentary on "teen sex". i was only mildly shocked considering more and more ppl r just too sexed up these days. they had several kids on the show that they had followed around and spoke with---only one was 19 and the other 17, the rest were 14 yr olds. hmmm i dont remember thinking about sex at 14. i dont remember the so called pressure these kids were experiencing to have sex. i dont recall ever sitting around my lunch table and all of us discussing who was having sex or giving blow jobs and y the others werent. maybe thats b/c i never let myself b pressured into anything or maybe its the fact that small towns r different. these kids were consumed with the idea of "hookin up", and most thought that oral sex was not the same as sex so they were in turn still virgins. well thats just a technicality, the two r definitely different, but its all still some sort of sex. the parents of these kids is what got me most.....it was as if they were livin in some bubble of denial. "susie told me she was gonna save herself til marriage so shes not doin anything." r u fuckin kiddin me??? i cant say that if the parents had a discussion with their kids that it would have mattered, but at least the kids would have been informed. truth is, my mom never had the sex talk with me, but she made me feel comfortable enough to tell her when i was ready to have sex so that she could help get me on some birth control. sheesh! i think the problem is that the school systems r preaching the wrong things in their sex ed classes......sure, keep on with the std info, and try to remain abstinent, but get real!!! lets also talk about what to do if ur gonna decide to have sex anyways. there was one, just one, school on this program that taught both sides of this issue. good for them!!! more school sex ed programs should b like that. i know i know, y is the school system havin to teach kids about sex? when does the parent take responsiblity? well, most parents r oblivious as this show clearly pointed out. not to mention its probably hard to imagine ur own son or daughter having sex. reality is what it is. i know that when im a parent i wont know all the medical terms for everybody's parts so my kids will have to learn that in school. and i also wont know all the stds that they can pick up so that too will have to b learned in school. i will talk to them about the other side of sex, the emotional side, what to expect the first time, and that if they choose to have sex the options for protection, to always use protection cause "im not raisin fuckin bambinos"----those words my mom said will forever b burned into my brain. lol