CRUEL INTENTIONS

ive always known some ppl to b cruel and nasty but its never more apparent than when i go to work. ofcourse i work with all women, what should i expect right?!?! lol. i work with a lady, B, and shes a great worker. i get along with her.....thank God! but i tell ya, if theres a new person that has any kind of quirks or who doesnt seem to prove themselves quickly she will tear them apart---behind their back no less. for instance, C is fairly new, less than a month there and she has a lil habit of sayin "wonderful" one too many times. i find it amusing, but i havent had the pleasure of workin directly with her for a full shift. now i understand the whole "intiation" process, especially in this field---its alot of physical labor and u gotta b able to hold ur own. i also understand that once uve been doin this work for some time u can easily tell if a new person is gonna pan out or not. ive been in this field for 5yrs and i can certainly tell when someone is good or not but i dont rip them apart if i dont get a good vibe or they prove useless. usually the quality of works shows pretty quickly, i dont feel the need to spout off about it like B does. i cant help but feel that she is capable of running the help off!! i know that had she treated me the way ive seen her treat new staff recently i woulda seriously thought about a different facility. does it make much sense to make new staff feel uncomfortable, possibly so that they will quit, so that we can work short staffed???? duh!!! ...........wonder if she talks shit about me?

enough bout work.....last nite tim and i went out to eat with angie and steve, er, ah, i mean her husband. lmao (since being married angie doesnt call steve by his name any more, only my husband 50 times in one conversation) anyhooooooo i wanted to hang out with angie, but mostly i did it b/c steve has seemingly gotten the "wrong impression" of tim from the first and only time hes ever met him. sometimes i think angie even has the wrong idea about tim....so i wanted to show them otherwise! everything was good, tim and steve were talkin up a storm about music, movies, guy stuff, etc. after dinner we went back to their house and had dessert, bs'ed some more. i had tim go out and warm up the car and asked steve, well? he just had this look on his face and then bitched at angie for bringin out the blow-up sheep. (gag gift) he did say it was better than the first time he met tim. hmmm, wtf does that mean? i suppose ill take that as sufficient!! neither steves or angies opinion about tim really matters---i know him and i like it!! :)