Its is very easy to get offended by what others are saying especially if it seems that you as a person is surrounded by negitivity. You put up your guard to try and protect yourself, I understand that perfectly. I know that I am not perfect and I can be insulting and yes sometimes it does make me feel better because I can, momentarily, escape my own misery that haunts me. I have said many insulting things and though I really don't regret what was said I do wish I had said it a bit differently. I know that doesn't make things right and I am wrong. Everyone does this from time to time. I sure most can agree with that. Cos, I will have to agree with you and most of the comments you had made in reguard to Darcy's post. I do understand that, perhaps, you weren't trying to be insulting in your comments. You were just trying to shine a different light to look under. Some buttons are very touchy and granted when we put our emotions out there we have to expect people to push them. I guess maybe if it was worded different or we actually knew you it wouldn't be such a big pill to swallow. Either way, I respect the comments even though I tend not over react sometimes. I know I shouldn't. But like Darcy and others, I put my emotions out there because seeing them helps me find the solution easier. I am sure I have said that before. Its all fucked up I guess. I big catch 22. Damned if you do and damned if you don't but thats life. And we all find different ways of dealing with it.
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