NO I WASNT WHINING ABOUT ANYTHING, I WAS SIMPLY STATING THAT MOST GUYS RNT UP FRONT AND HONEST ABOUT SHIT. I DO ASK THE SIMPLE QUESTIONS----WHAT R U LOOKIN FOR? R U READY FOR A RELATIONSHIP? R U INTO JUST SEXUAL RELATIONSHIPS? ETC. THE PROBLEM IS THAT ITS HARD TO TELL IF SOMEONE IS BEING HONEST OR PUTTIN UP A FRONT TO MAKE AN IMPRESSION. AND YEAH I KNOW THERES LITTLE SIGNS THAT U CAN LOOK FOR TO TELL IF SOMEONE IS SINCERE OR NOT-----SUCH AS THEM KEEPING THEIR WORD HELPS TO BUILD TRUST. BUT ISNT GETTIN "PLAYED" ABOUT THE "PLAYER" BEING SO GOOD AT WHAT THEY DO THAT U CANT C THE SIGNS?!?! I AM NOT DESPERATE TO THE POINT OF BLINDNESS. IM NOT STARVED FOR ATTENTION TO THE POINT THAT I WOULD LET ANYONE WALK ALL OVER ME. THE FACT OF THE MATTER IS, IS THAT I AM ALWAYS UPFRONT AND IF I WANNA KNOW SOMETHIN I FUCKIN ASK. AND I CAN "DEMAND" ANSWERS ALL DAY LONG AND STILL NOT GET AN ANSWER OR A STR8 ONE FOR THAT MATTER. U CANT CONTROL PPL, ITS UP TO EACH INDIVIDUAL TO B HONEST OR NOT. AND LIKE I SAID......TOO MANY R ALL ABOUT MAKIN AN "IMPRESSION" RATHER THAN JUST TAKIN ON THE ATTITUDE OF "WHAT U C IS WHAT U GET". MAYBE THOSE KIND OF PPL JUST RNT COMFORTABLE ENOUGH IN THEIR OWN SKIN TO HAVE THAT KIND OF PERSPECTIVE. I DONT REALLY KNOW THE ANSWER TO THAT ONE.
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Maybe the guys you've encountered aren't up front and honest, but I hardly think that “most” guys are the spineless twerps you describe. Most guys, in fact, most people are honest and straightforward in their dealings with others because, as anyone who has been in a relationship for more than a month knows, lies don't just disappear.
If you can't get straight answers you are probably being lied to. If you don't have the self control to wait until you know you can trust guy to bang him, it's your own fault if he uses you.
The idea of a “player” beating you at the “game” is just an excuse for your poor judgment in men and misinterpretations of their intentions. Maybe you need to examine the pattern your relationships follow. I've found that the girls who I end up staying with for more than just a fling are the ones that keep their legs closed until I am forced to either like them because of their personality first, or bolt 'cause all I wanted was pussy.
Maybe you're just a slut. Maybe your personality is close to zero. Maybe both. Maybe thats why you always get "played".
better luck next time
Cos
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