BLAH BLAH BLAH!!!! WHEN DID LIFE GET SOOO ROUTINE? U GET UP GO TO WORK COME HOME AND DO CHORES. I DO UNDERSTAND THAT IT IS SOMEWHAT EXPECTED AS U GET OLDER.......MOSTLY B/C U EVENTUALLY START RUNNING OUT OF "SPUNK" AND ALOT OF PPL END UP WITH FAMILIES OF THEIR OWN AND WELL I CANT COME UP WITH ANOTHER REASON. MAYBE B/C U C THE USELESSNESS IN RUNNING TO THE BARS AND GOIN OUT ALL THE TIME, BUT ISNT THAT WHAT WE CALL MATURITY? I DONT KNOW, BUT I HAD A PHONE CONVERSATION LAST NITE AND GOT THE IMPRESSION THAT THE IMPRESSION THAT I MADE WAS THAT OF A 40YR OLD WITH LIKE 6 KIDS AND W/E. I MUST ADMIT THAT I DO LIKE TO CHILL AT HOME ALOT. I DONT LIKE RUNNIN TO THE BARS AND CLUBS AND SUCH........QUITE FRANKLY I CAN SPEND MY MONEY ON BETTER THINGS, THAT AND IM NOT ONE FOR DRINKING REALLY. ONCE IN AWHILE IS AIGHT BUT EVEN THEN ID MUCH RATHER B DRINKIN AT HOME........SO IF I DO WANNA GO OUT ID MUCH RATHER B GOIN TO MAGIC MT. OR BOWLING OR IF ITS NICE, PUTT PUTT.........THINGS OF THAT NATURE. ;) THEN WE WERE DISCUSSING FIRST DATES AND MAKIN AN IMPRESSION............I SAID THAT ITS REALLY NOTHIN SPECIAL TO TAKE SOMEONE OUT CAUSE AS LONG AS U HAVE 20 BUCKS WHATEVER U DO CAN B FUN EVEN IF UR NOT EXACTLY ENJOYING THE COMPANY.......I MEAN HOW CAN U NOT HAVE FUN WHILE WATCHING A MOVIE IN A THEATER-----THERES NO TALKING!!!!! AND HOW COULD U NOT HAVE FUN AT MAGIC MT.!!!! FOR ME, ID MUCH RATHER DO SOMETHING THATS MORE MUNDANE AND HUMDRUM CAUSE IF WE CAN CLICK DOIN THAT THEN ITS GAURANTEED THAT ACTUALLY GOIN OUT AND DOIN SOMETHING WILL B FUN. BESIDES, U DONT ALWAYS HAVE THE MONEY TO GO OUT AND ITS WHEN UR STUCK AT HOME HAVING TO DEAL WITH EACH THAT SOMETIMES PROBLEMS COME UP. I WOULD RATHER KNOW UP FRONT, RIGHT AWAY THAT WHOEVER IT IS THAT IM GONNA B WITH CAN DEAL WITH US JUST BEING US-----KNOW WHAT I MEAN? MAYBE IM WEIRD, MAYBE THAT MAKES ME OLD BUT I THINK ITS A FAIRLY GOOD WAY TO APPROACH THIS DATING THING CAUSE I DONT LIKE WASTING MY TIME OR ANYONE ELSES!!!! WHAT DO U GUYS THINK?????????
3 comments:
Yeah I totally agree. I mean, like you said, you can have fun goin out doin w/e but it's the times when ur both broke and sittin at home bullshittin that really counts. If you don't hit it off there, it can't go any further cuz you don't have shit to talk about.
What's even worse tho is someone who doesn't have an opinion about anything...nice convo there isn't it???
I agree 100%. I would much rather hang out with someone at home or doing something like going put putting rather then spending extra money on something that where pry not even going to remember doing 2 weeks from then. Doing something that u and that special someone will remember doing counts for more then not having any memories at all later down the road.
The first date thing i hate it too, But the perfect first date would be going somewhere for dinner and talking about thing u both like and dislike. This way u know from the start if u too have things in common and other thing to talk about rather then never talking and giving 6 months into a relationship and then realizing what was i thinking this guy has nothing inteligent to say!!!!!!!!!
I think what counts is just spending some time together to see how each one feels about the other. To get an idea of how perceptive one is in understanding the communication of the other. both verbal and non-verbal. One may find there is a chemistry that can be magic when the give-and-take communication works well.. by asking good questions (non-judgemental ones) and being a good listener. sharing laughs as well as smiles. ;)
tag care,
Twi.. :D
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